5 more ways couples can argue fairly

Have a problem-solving attitude.

Be honest about your agenda and work to find solutions/compromise.

Avoid hurt and criticism.

There is no recanting harmful words. They can be permanent wounds.

Learn to vent feelings appropriately.

Storing up feelings is like a volcano waiting to erupt. Understanding how to cope can help you deal with issues that come up.

No assumptions.

Even though you may know the person, you should not assume things. It is each partner’s responsibility to express your wants and needs directly, clearly, and respectfully.

One team.

Know that the end of result of an argument is not for one partner to win, but for both. Each must work together to be an effective team and a successful couple.