The birth of a sibling for a young child can be a happy occasion, but it can also be a rude shock and create feelings of jealousy and abandonment. Here are some ways to prevent children from feeling abandoned.
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Let the older child know ahead of time.
This prevents them from being shocked, especially when the mom begins to show.
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Invite the child to meet their new sibling.
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Read storybooks:
Baby on the Way (Sears Children Library)
Another Tree In The Yard
The New Baby
The New Baby at Your House
Tommy’s New SisterTwinnies
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Go shopping with the older child.
It is important to have them participate in selecting nursery items such as blankets or picture frames.
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Share with the older child their baby photos.
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Share with the older child their baby stories.
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Give a gift to the older sibling.
