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Posts on ‘December 10th, 2007’

10 ways of creating space- physically and mentally

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    First and foremost before I begin the list, I want to stress the importance of having personal space. In my own experience, the mere fact of not having physical and/or mental space (as in no psychological stress) can have a paralyzing affect. There are times when you feel stuck, unsure, stressed out, depressed, and it can be attributed to not having enough space. Here are some suggestions that have worked for me.

  1. Meditation

    This is an invaluable technique that I use not only for relaxation, but to free my mind, without the clutters and thoughts of everyday life. I can make more effective decisions and feel more confident.

Why aren’t you listening? (difference between men and women)

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I often hear this from my friends in relationships and I find myself saying that it my relationship as well. Indeed men and women communicate in a different way. Here are some facts that I have heard from web sources.

  • Men want to problem solve, women want to vent

    Whenever there’s a problem, women tend to want to vent or discuss it. This goes along the lines that there are emotions usually connected to the problem. Women want to approach a problem by first talking about it. However, men tend to want to go directly to the problem solving. This ties into the next point, which is..